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Saturday, 02 May 2009
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Let's work towards our future. You and I. Shall we?
Saturday, 25 April 2009
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After exactly 3 months...
I found the motivation and time to write again. Are my readers still with me? :)
Thank god, I found out that I wasn't the only one who went on a hiatus. A few other friends of mine had apparently gone missing from their blog since like January or February. Think I shall use that as an excuse for not allowing myself to feel guilty over abandoning my readers for the past 3 months.
Anyway, first things first. Updates!
1. Life as a working adult can be so routined that I see no reason why you, my readers have to read about it.
2. I have so many photos to show all of you but I am just plain lazy to upload them. You can see them at my facebook profile if you are really keened.
3. I see the graph of 'my English language skill' plotted against 'Amount of time spent working with Thai people' to be similar to that of a graph of Increasing deceleration.
4. Jayor came to Singapore!
5. I experienced my first ever Songkran festival in Thailand!
6. I will be heading down to Indonesia for the first time in my 23 years 11 months of life next Tuesday for product presentation with my Director. I'm grateful to be paid to travel overseas.
7. Will be heading to Thailand in early June with Assistant Director for Thailand Travel Mart. Assistant Director said we should go for the post event tour too. Isn't it great to be paid to travel to and tour Thailand? Sometimes I really love my job to bits.
8. Jayor and I are considering on plans to get married next year. Deeper plannings and discussions to be conducted before further confirmation.
Some of my favourite photos taken recently in random order:

Sunday, 25 January 2009
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The Wedding
Uchida announced over reunion dinner just now that, my mum and him are getting married officially in Japan next year!
My first reaction when I heard this?
'Wah... faintz..' I said, ' Are you all gonna like wear Kimono or something? Can I be the bridesmaid? Will we (my sister and I) get to wear the kimono as well? We can get Koneko to be the 'flower boy'!'
And my sister guffawed with laugher.
I have to admit I am excited! I can't help it man. For one, I don't really feel Chinese New year-y this year at all for god knows what reason. It's just happening too fast, even before I could accept the fact that 2008 was last year already. And while my sister was enthusiatically making lanterns out of red packets, decorating the 'Ying liu', shopping for new year clothes and stuff, I was.. well.. indifferent.
We don't go back to Malaysia for visiting, and my other family is in Chiang Rai, celebrating Lahu New Year :) . Other than the compulsory annual reunion dinner on the eve of Chinese New Year and the 'shou sui' (to stay up late into the wee hours of the morning to bless your parents with long life), Chinese New Year has gradually become just 1 or 2 days of extra rest days for myself.
Hence, the announcement did well in getting me into a festive mood. I thought it's only in dramas that you get to witness your parent's wedding. It's actually happening to me now can you believe it?
' That means you will get married in the same year as Safiah!!!' I exclaimed to my mum. (Safiah is one of my JC besties)
' That means I'll be the last to get married in this family!' My sister piped.
-_-!!!!
Was jokingly telling Louis that I wonder if I have to change my surname to 'Uchida', but maybe after changing I'll have to change my surname again soon (to 'Jator' .. hahha very thick-skinned nor Jayor?). Louis said I'm being Corky. Hahaha... Who's the 'corky' one loh, Louis?
Cool right, 3 surnames, 1 Lifetime, Chinese, Japanese, Thai. Woot.
My mum and Uchida's wedding rocks more than Fann wong and Christopher Lee's. :)
Had a lot of fun this weekend. Went 'strolling' at Bukit Timah Nature Reserve with a few Endeavourians+ Eric and Youkai yesterday morning as training for the Mount Ophir trip end of February. It's really great fun to get fit together with your friends. It makes the whole process less tiring( with the occasional teasing flying around here and there, crappy photo sessions etc ).
Some photos here to share:
Big Bear and Ling Wei
You Kai and Fang Jing leading
Big Bear and Ling Wei again
Walking down the long flight of stairs before another long flight of staircase going UPWARD
We found a cave!
Eric trying to get a shot of the cave
The Posey Ling Wei
Another pose.
While the rest of the peeps were figuring out which way to go next....
Mr Big Bear was huffing and puffing..
Jayor, look at Ling Wei's Lahu Bag... He said he wants the black type with the colourful cloth ja
You Kai
Group photo 1
A very unglam shot of Eric
Fang Jing
Our Uncle Kwa looking very feminine
Group Photo 2
Group Photo 3
Where is Eric?
Yes I was trying to be extra
Most Scandalous photo of this trip. Some tongue action when they were turned on by each other's sweaty looks.
On the way back
We saw Ling Wei's friend
Met up with the Thai language gang in the evening yesterday for Naam Waan's belated birthday/ advance reunion steamboat dinner at Bugis. Girls outing! Wanted to share my photos here but xanga said I have hit the montly upload limit :( But anyway the photos are uploaded on facebook :) so you can view the photos there.
Saturday, 10 January 2009
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Some nice Thai songs to share
Bought some new albums from my recent trip to Chiang Rai, and there are a few nice songs I'd like to share:
The first song is called 'Rak' (Love) by Big Ass. It's a song about Thailand and the lyrics of the song asked why are Thais complaining and what happened to Thailand. The chorus said no matter what happens I'll always love you (Thailand).
This song touched my heart, and I believed those of my friends who took Thai together with me will have the same sentiments after hearing the song too. Here is the original MTV by Big Ass, but it's not as touching as another one I found on Youtube
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This is another version of the Video of the song I found on Youtube, it contains the translation of the lyrics into English as well. Stunning pictures in the video, here you go:
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The next song I am going to share is called 'Ber nii... mai mii khon khong ther' (This number.. doesn't consist of someone that belong to you) by Parn Tanaporn.
Parn Tanaporn's songs are always quite fierce, and of the 3 songs of hers that I have heard before, all has lyrics scolding another woman who steal other people's boyfriend. This one is no exception, here is the MTV of the song... very fierce also.. her MTV always got cat fight.. but I like Parn's style because that's what make her 'Parn'.. But anyway.. the below MTV is very สะใจ. All the 3rd parties in the video got bad retribution in the end. Serve them right. Who ask them to go steal other people's boyfriend. cherh!
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Here is the lyrics if you want to know what the song is talking about:
เบอร์นี้...ไม่มีคนของเธอ
"ber nee...mai mee kon kong ter"รู้ตัวว่าทำไม่ค่อยงามเท่าไร แค่เพียงข้องใจอยู่ว่าใครโทรมา
roo dtua waa tam mai koi ngaam tao-rai kae piang kong jai yoo waa krai toh maa
I know that I didn't really react that nicely, just being suspicious of who called.ถามว่าใคร เรื่องอะไร เขาก็เลี่ยงไป
taam waa krai reuang a-rai kao gor liang bpai
Asked who was that, what about? And she'd be evasive.ฉันมันก็ค้างคา อยากพูดให้ชัดเจน
chan man gor kaang kaa yaak poot hai chat jen
As a result, I remained unsettled. I want to say it clearly,เรื่องงาน ไม่คุยที่ทำงาน หรือไง
reuang ngaan mai kui tee tam ngaan reu ngai
Work matters, can't you discuss it at the workplace or what?ต้องโทรปรึกษากันวุ่นวาย เช้าเย็น
dtong toh bpreuk-saa gan woon waai chao yen
Have to call and discuss with each other, continuously interfering day and night.ต้องหลบไป ต้องแอบไป ยืนคุยตั้งไกล
dtong lop bpai dtong aep bpai yeun kui dtang glai
Have to secretly hide to stand and chat so far away.คบมาก็เพิ่งเป็น ฉันเลยอดไม่ไหว
kop maa gor perng bpen chan loie ot mai wai
He has just started to be like that, so I can't tolerate it.ถ้าไม่คิด ก็แล้วไป เชิญคุยได้ทั้งวัน
taa mai kit gor laew bpai chern kui daai tang wan
If you're not thinking of anything it's okay, you may chat all day.เว้นเพียงแต่เธอคิดการใหญ่กว่านี้...
wen piang dtae ter kit gaan yai gwaa nee...
Unless you're thinking something much bigger than this...โทษที บอกไว้เลยว่าเบอร์นี้ไม่มีคนของเธอ
toht tee bok wai loie waa ber nee mai mee kon kong ter
Sorry, I have to say that this number doesn't consist of anyone that belongs to you.อย่าให้ระคายว่าเธอกำลังไม่เกรงใจ
yaa hai ra kaai waa ter gam-lang mai greng jai
Don't irate me, acting that you're not showing consideration.คนรักเขาอยู่ข้างๆกัน ถ้าคิดอย่างนั้นมันก็กล้าไป
kon rak kao yoo kaang-kaang gan taa kit yaang nan man gor glaa bpai
His lover is beside him, if you're thinking like that, then you're too daring.อย่าทำให้ฉันร้าย จำไว้หากไม่มีใครตายอย่าโทร
yaa tam hai chan raai jam wai haak mai mee krai dtaai yaa toh
Don't make me rude, bear in mind if no one is dead don't call.แค่กลัวเผื่อเธอไม่รู้ตัวเท่าไร เผลอลืมว่าใครเป็นของใครขึ้นมา
kae glua peua ter mai-roo-dtua tao-rai pler leum waa krai bpen kong krai keun maa
Just afraid that you didn't realise so, unaware that who belongs to who.เห็นหยอกกัน เห็นผูกพันเกินกว่าเพื่อนกัน
hen yok gan hen pook-pan gern gwaa peuan gan
I see you teasing each other, I see affection towards each other more than just being friends.ฉันทนมาหลายครา อยากพูดให้ชัดเจน
chan ton maa laai kraa yaak poot hai chat jen
I've been putting up with this many times, I want to say it clearly,ถ้าไม่คิด ก็แล้วไป เชิญคุยได้ทั้งวัน
taa mai kit gor laew bpai chern kui daai tang wan
If you're not thinking of anything it's okay, you may chat all day.เว้นเพียงแต่เธอคิดการใหญ่กว่านี้...
wen piang dtae ter kit gaan yai gwaa nee...
Unless you're thinking something much bigger than this...โทษที บอกไว้เลยว่าเบอร์นี้ไม่มีคนของเธอ
toht tee bok wai loie waa ber nee mai mee kon kong ter
Sorry, I have to say that this number doesn't consist of anyone that belongs to you.อย่าให้ระคายว่าเธอกำลังไม่เกรงใจ
yaa hai ra kaai waa ter gam-lang mai greng jai
Don't irate me, acting that you're not showing consideration.คนรักเขาอยู่ข้างๆกัน ถ้าคิดอย่างนั้นมันก็กล้าไป
kon rak kao yoo kaang-kaang gan taa kit yaang nan man gor glaa bpai
His lover is beside him, if you're thinking like that, then you're too daring.อย่าทำให้ฉันร้าย จำไว้หากไม่มีใครตายอย่าโทร
yaa tam hai chan raai jam wai haak mai mee krai dtaai yaa toh
Don't make me rude, bear in mind if no one is dead don't call.โทษที บอกไว้เลยว่าเบอร์นี้ไม่มีคนของเธอ
toht tee bok wai loie waa ber nee mai mee kon kong ter
Sorry, I have to say that this number doesn't consist of anyone that belongs to you.อย่าให้ระคายว่าเธอกำลังไม่เกรงใจ
yaa hai ra kaai waa ter gam-lang mai greng jai
Don't irate me, acting that you're not showing consideration.คนรักเขาอยู่ข้างๆกัน เรียนสูงขนาดนั้นควรจะต้องอาย
kon rak kao yoo kaang-kaang gan rian soong ka-naat nan kuan ja dtong aai
His lover is beside him, being that highly educated, you should be shameful.อย่าทำให้ฉันร้าย จำไว้หากไม่มีใครตายอย่าโทร
yaa tam hai chan raai jam wai haak mai mee krai dtaai yaa toh
Don't make me rude, bear in mind if no one is dead don't call.จำไว้คนจะแย่งแฟนใครห้ามโทร
jam wai kon ja yaeng faen krai haam toh
Bear in mind, those who want to snatch someone's boyfriend, stop calling.The third song I am going to shareis called 'Rak Saam Sao' (sad love triangle) by Prik Thai. It is about a girl who had to choose between someone who dumped her and returned and someone who has always loved her.
The song is very catchy and the melody is very nice, hence I tried to learn the song. Here is the original MTV of the song, the guy in white looks somewhat like my friend Louis in certain angle, but when they film him from in front, he doesn't look like Louis anymore. Because he is much more handsome. HEE HEE HEE... Joking na Louis.
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Here is my version:
And finally, if you want to know what the lyrics is about, here you go:
รักสามเศร้า
"rak saam sao"นับจากวันนั้น วันที่เธอทิ้ง
nap jaak wan nan wan tee ter ting
From that day, the day you left.ฉันต้องยอมรับความจริง แม้ว่ามันไม่ง่ายเลย
chan dtong yom rap kwaam jing mae waa man mai ngaai loie
I had to admit the truth, even though it's not easy.นับจากวันนั้น ฉันก็เจอเค้า
nap jaak wan nan chan gor jer kao
from that day I met him.เค้าที่คอยเช็ดน้ำตา คอยดูแลไม่ห่าง
kao tee koi chet nam dtaa koi doo lae mai haang
He kept wiping my tears, constantly looking after me, never far.อย่าร้อง เค้าบอกกับฉันว่าอย่าร้อง
yaa rong kao bok gap chan waa yaa rong
Don't cry, he told me, don't cry.มีเค้าทั้งคนจะคอย อยู่ข้างฉัน
mee kao tang kon ja koi yoo kaang chan
I'll have him always by my side.และแล้วและเราทั้งสองก็ได้คบ และไปด้วยดี ทำไม
lae laew lae rao tang song gor daai kop lae bpai duay dee tam-mai
And then we'd go out together, and have a good time, whyเธอกลับมา เอาตอนนี้
ter glap maa ao dton nee
do you come back now?คนหนึ่งเค้าช่างดีกับฉัน จะทิ้งเค้าลงยังไง
kon neung kao chaang dee gap chan ja ting kao long yang ngai
One person has been so good to me, how could I leave him?คนหนึ่งเคยทิ้งไป แต่รักไม่เคยจางหาย
kon neung koie ting bpai dtae rak mai koie jaang haai
One person once left me, but my love never faded.ฉันไม่ใช่เจ้าหญิงจากไหน ก็คงต้องเลือกสักทาง
chan mai chai jaao ying jaak nai gor kong dtong leuak sak taang
I'm not a princess of any place, but I have to choose a path.ทางที่รักสามเศร้าต้องจบ
taang tee rak saam sao dtong jop
A path that must end this sad love triangle.นับจากวันนี้ ฉันต้องเข้มแข็ง
nap jaak wan nee chan dtong kem kaeng
From that day, I had to be strong.ระหว่างคนที่รักเรา หรือว่ารักครั้งก่อน
ra-waang kon tee rak rao reu waa rak krang gon
Between the person I love now and my previous love.อย่าร้อง เค้าบอกกับฉันว่าอย่าร้อง
yaa rong kao bok gap chan waa yaa rong
Don't cry, he told me, don't cry.มีเค้าทั้งคนจะคอย อยู่ข้างฉัน
mee kao tang kon ja koi yoo kaang chan
I'll have him always by my side.และแล้วและเราทั้งสองก็ได้คบ และไปด้วยดี ทำไม
lae laew lae rao tang song gor daai kop lae bpai duay dee tam-mai
And then we'd go out together, and have a good time, whyเธอกลับมา เอาตอนนี้
ter glap maa ao dton nee
do you come back now?คนหนึ่งเค้าช่างดีกับฉัน จะทิ้งเค้าลงยังไง
kon neung kao chaang dee gap chan ja ting kao long yang ngai
One person has been so good to me, how could I leave him?คนหนึ่งเคยทิ้งไป แต่รักไม่เคยจางหาย
kon neung koie ting bpai dtae rak mai koie jaang haai
One person once left me, but my love never faded.ฉันไม่ใช่เจ้าหญิงจากไหน ก็คงต้องเลือกสักทาง
chan mai chai jaao ying jaak nai gor kong dtong leuak sak taang
I'm not a princess of any place, but I have to choose a path.ทางที่รักสามเศร้าต้องจบ
taang tee rak saam sao dtong jop
A path that must end this sad love triangle.(Interlude)
คนหนึ่งเค้าช่างดีกับฉัน จะทิ้งเค้าลงยังไง
kon neung kao chaang dee gap chan ja ting kao long yang ngai
One person has been so good to me, how could I leave him?คนหนึ่งเคยทิ้งไป แต่รักไม่เคยจางหาย
kon neung koie ting bpai dtae rak mai koie jaang haai
One person once left me, but my love never faded.ฉันไม่ใช่เจ้าหญิงจากไหน ก็คงต้องเลือกสักทาง
chan mai chai jaao ying jaak nai gor kong dtong leuak sak taang
I'm not a princess of any place, but I have to choose a path.ทางที่รักสามเศร้าต้องจบ
taang tee rak saam sao dtong jop
A path that must end this sad love triangle.คนหนึ่งเค้าช่างดีกับฉัน จะทิ้งเค้าลงยังไง
kon neung kao chaang dee gap chan ja ting kao long yang ngai
One person has been so good to me, how could I leave him?คนหนึ่งเคยทิ้งไป แต่รักไม่เคยจางหาย
kon neung koie ting bpai dtae rak mai koie jaang haai
One person once left me, but my love never faded.ฉันไม่ใช่เจ้าหญิงจากไหน ก็คงต้องเลือกสักทาง
chan mai chai jaao ying jaak nai gor kong dtong leuak sak taang
I'm not a princess of any place, but I have to choose a path.ทางที่รักสามเศร้าต้องจบ
taang tee rak saam sao dtong jop
A path that must end this sad love triangle.
Monday, 05 January 2009
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Chiang Rai December 2008
I finally have the time and discipline to sit myself down to type out this entry. Quite a lot of photos this time round, so this definitely won't be a short entry. Get yourself a tub of popcorns, a box of tissue papers and some drinks. Here I go...
I departed for Thailand on the evening of 23rd December 2008. My flight with Swiss Air International to Bangkok was scheduled at 2120. So I had a hell of a time rushing with some last minute packing and bathing after I reached home from work at around 6plus.
The packing was the challenging part. All because of the difference in Baggage allowance for my two flights. As there are no direct flights to ChiangRai from Singapore, I had to take a flight to Bangkok first. I took Swiss Air International because its promotional rate was cheaper than that of Air Asia at the point I did my booking.
Swiss Air International allows 20kg of check in baggage and 8kg of hand carry luggage. How ever, my flight from Bangkok to Chiang Rai with Air Asia allows only 15kg of check ins and 7kg of hand carry. Hence I had to manipulate my stuff inside my luggage such that I can easily remove a 5 kg load from my check ins to transfer it my hand carry for my flight to Chiang Rai.
I was lucky both flights didn't bother to check the weight of our hand carry lugagge. The weight of my hand carry luggage to Chiang Rai was about 13 kg! That was almost twice of what was allowed!
Reached Bangkok at about 2245 Thailand time, and I had a long way to go before my flight to Chiang Rai departed at 0700 next morning. It was one of the longest wait in my life. I could not sleep, because I was travelling alone and had to look after my luggages. Besides, it was too cold inside the Airport, and the metal chairs didn't help at all.
I didn't bring anything to entertain myself because I thought I won't need that for my short stay of 4 days in Chiang Rai this time. Secondly there was baggage restraints too, as my luggages were already very over weight.
Started looking around and caught sight of my fellow colleague from Toursim Authority of Thailand at the arrival hall.
The kinda empty Suvarnabhumi Airport.
While waiting for my flight to Chiang Rai, I did some cross-stitchings. With some difficulties though, because my foldable scissors was confiscated before I boarded the flight to Bangkok. Ok, I have myself to blame too, because on all my previous flights to Thailand with the budget airlines, my foldable small scissors had never been detected in my hand carried luggage before, hence i assumed that I will be as lucky this time.
I guess it's what they call 'what you pay is what you get' --budget flights =lousier security systems.
But argh.. I had to use my hands to 'tear' the threads for cross stitching. And taadaa! here is my end-product (part of Jayor's Christmas present):
My flight to Chiang Rai was scheduled at 0700, which means I can check in earliest only at 0500. The 6 hours at Suvarnabhumi Airport was really longggggg... Now I finally understand why the stranded passengers at Suvarnabhumi Airport were so furious.
By 4plus am I couldn't stand it anymore, hence I started making my way to the Check-in counters and stood around, trying to waste some time. I must have looked very lost, because this kind security guard came up to me and asked me where I was flying to and upon knowing my flight, he told me that I can actually go check in because the screen above the check-in counters said 'All domestic flights check-in now open'.
I think I am blessed you know, to have people lending a helping hand when I am travelling alone, like the kind cab driver who drove me to Mo chit on my previous visit to Thailand in september.
The flight to Chiang Rai was a breeze. That was because I spent like 90% of the time dozing off. There was a point the flight attendant had to tap on my shoulder to wake me up to pay attention to the demo for the ways to exit the plane in case of emergency. (Because I was sitting just beside the emergency exit).
The outside temperature was 15 degree celcius in Chiang Rai, as announced by the Flight Captain when we touched down. As I made my way down the plane into Chiang Rai International Airport, my stomach did flip flops. I was DAMN nervous about seeing Jayor ok.
It's that kind of feeling you get when you are getting ready to go on your first date. Really. No kidding. Try being apart with your girlfriend/boyfriend for 3 months man.
Jayor was nervous about seeing me too (as confessed by him later). He was so nervous that he didn't know what to do or say upon my exit from the baggage claims section. He only managed a small and quick wave with his hand at his stomach level. Can you imagine?
I tried to be cheeky despite my own nervousness and said 'Didn't you say you were going to hug me the first thing you see me here?' HAHAHA.
He gave me the hug he promised and it felt so good to be home again.
When I reached P'Sophie's new house, I was surprised that there were something waiting for me in the fridge already. Here:
YES. My favourite Thai Barley Milk Tea! Jayor had bought them the day before I arrived and kept them in the fridge for me. That was such a sweet gesture. It's small things like this that touched my heart na.
After that Jayor proceeded to make a quick and simple breakfast for us. I am such a lucky girl.
P' Sophie's doggies. This is Baby, he's been around since Jayor was a kid. You could say Baby and Jayor watched each other grow up. Baby was an abandoned dog at a Thai Temple before P'Sophie took him in.
If you look carefully at the photo of Jayor below, you can actually see Baby in the background:
Now Baby is an old dog... and Jayor is an old man... HAHAHHAHAHAHA KIDDING na Jayor..
Next up, we have Futsa. Futsa was bought from the night bazaar. He was one of those cute little puppies in the cage being put up for sale. But Futsa very naughty sometimes, he likes to bite Baby if Baby gets more attention from P'Sophie than him. And he likes to jump up and pounce on me when he sees me. I guess that is his way of giving a 'Big Doggie Hug'.
Breakfast is almost ready! Jayor looks very focused na.
Taa daa! Something simple. It's the Ai Xin Zao Can = Breakfast of love. =)
This is one of my favourite photos for this trip. He looks like a contented kid with food in his mouth... his bah-geh..
Basically he is just too cute in this photo.
Can you believe this small shelter for motorcycles was hand built by Jayor with the help of his friends? Will those Singaporean guys who can do this please stand up?
I told Jayor I want a shelter like this outside my house in Thailand next time too =)
After breakfast I fell into a deep sleep all the way until almost evening time because I did not sleep at all in the previous night. I know I know... you must thinking that I wasted my trip sleeping. I can't help na... I was really sleepy.
Jayor brought me to this roadside foodstall for dinner. This stall serves great Char Siew noodle soup man. I get hungry everytime I look at the photo.
This is me.. trying to play with the spring onions on the table.
Jayor... having his drink.
The stall.
This bowl of Baa Mee Muu Daeng aka Char Siew noodle soup was heaven.. especially during cold nights!
Couple shot. =)
I found the following on his study desk. Guess what my reaction was when I saw it?
Yes. I went 'WOW!'
The night was really very cold.. even with comforter he was still cold. He looks like he is watching horror show in this photo. No la.. he was watching the news. I tell you, this boy is a news freak. If you want him to sit down quietly, just switch on the TV with news. He will be glued to the TV instantly.
Back to our favourite mixed-vegetable rice stall near Jetyod road again.
The 2 must-haves on our list of side dishes: Green Curry (red kind, my favourite) and the chicken curry (his favourite)
The two of us always order an extra plate of plain rice to share after finishing the 1st plate.
It was my favourite day for this trip. Because it's Christmas!
He gave me a Christmas present that morning. But I said I will open it that evening because it feels more romantic hahaha.
When we went to the market after that, I saw a shop selling Thai costumes and I told him I want to get myself a Thai costume because I know I will need to wear it during functions in future.
He stopped me immediately. Saying 'No, don't buy, it's a waste of money. Let's go'. I suspected something was amiss. Because he has never show such a strong immediate reaction if I want to buy anything.
We didn't enter the shop anyway, and I was surprised that I was actually so obedient (not like me at all).
'You didn't let me buy the Thai costume because it's what's inside my Christmas Present right?? right?????' I said, laughing.
He was speechless for a while too... before bursting out into laughter and replied 'who says I bought Thai costume for you? Don't think too much. I bought candies for you instead'.
We decided to treat ourselves to a resort stay for our first Christmas together. It was a nice and peaceful place, I regretted not taking pictures of the outside of the resort because the little white cottages looked very pretty.
This is the Christmas present he gave me:
And GUESS WHAT? I WAS RIGHT!!!!!!!
He got me a traditional Northern Thai costume!!! He later confessed that he was actually stunned with my comment at the Market. He asked me how did I know he got me a Thai Costume? And he said I was no fun at all... But I told him I could 'act surprise' if he wants. HAHAHAHA.
This is the Thai costume. The skirt was a bit big for me so Jayor said he will bring me to the shop the next day to see if we can either get a smaller skirt or get the lady to alter the skirt a bit since the lady told him she does alterations.
I got him something for Christmas too. It was a shirt I bought at G2000+ the cross stitched book mark I made. But I didn't tell him anything about a Christmas present for him. I decided to pretend that I have forgotten all about his Christmas Present.
Besides that I bought some tealight candles from Ikea for his Christmas surprise too. But with him beside me, it was hardly impossible for me to prepare the surprise. Thus I decided to play baddie.
The following conversation was orignally in Thai. It has been translated for the benefit of non Thai speakers.
'I feel like drinking Barley Milk Tea, can you go get for me?' I asked him when he was watching the TV.
'You haven't finish those I bought for you at home, you can drink them when we go home tomorrow na?'
'Well then if that's the case, can you go back home to retrieve the Barley Milk Tea for me? Because I really want to drink it now.' (OH MY GOSH I WAS SUCH A BIG BADDIE)
'Do I really have to go home now? I'm lazy...'
'Please???? na? na? I really want to drink it now na..' (Teh-ed a bit)
'How long did we took to come here from the house just now?' I asked (so that I could estimate what time he will be back)
'I don't know... less than 10 minutes?'
'Ok! get going then! we will go for dinner after you come back later na~ go go go~~' I shoo-ed him off.
He reluctantly wore his shoes and went out.
After he was safely out of sight, I sprung into action. I switched off the TV, grabbed the candles. And made this:
If you want to know how I managed to get the matches to light the candles, I bought it at Big C the previous day, lying to him that matches in Singapore are so expensive, so I had to resort to buying the matches in Thailand.
He didn't doubt me. Thank god. hee hee hee.
I laid the cross-stitched bookmark (in a cute paper bag) at the center of the heart:
I switched off all the lights and admired my masterpiece... then panicked at the thought that he would be back any second then. I grabbed the other Christmas Present and leapt into the closet. (YES closet).
Luckily the closet was like the kind where you see in the movie Narnia, with its door joined to the floor and ceiling. If not the whole closet would have crashed by the time he came back.
Ok my plan was to surprise him with the candle light heartshape when he stepped into the room, climb out of the closet like how Sadako climbed out of the TV and said 'How terribly I died.........'
That was a joke.
My plan was to surprise him with the candle light heartshape when he stepped into the room, switch on his favourite song 'Haa gan jon jer' from my LG phone and then come out of the closet, give him the present and wish him Merry Christmas.
But then after 20 minutes, he was still not back yet...
I started getting the chills of being alone inside the closet, and I started looking around in the dark closet to see if I had any 'special' companion. 40 minutes passed.. and he was still not back yet.
I started thinking to myself that maybe this was not a great plan afterall. The worst possible scenarios began to appear in my head. What if he got into a road accident on his way back home? What if he was angry and decided not to come back at all? What if one of the candle accidently tipped over and burn down the whole place(with me inside the closet?), what if he came back to find that I had died of suffocation inside the closet?
Just then the door opened. I freaked out and got my phone ready. He's back!
'...... Mia jaa?' he called.
I remained silent and played the song. He walked to the bathroom. '.... Mia jaa?'
I felt like smacking his head. Does the song sound like it's coming from the bathroom? I thought to myself.
I almost did the 'Sadako' stunt because he made me waited for so long. I came out of the closet (like finally..), saying 'Suk San Wan Christmas na' only to find my poor boy sobbing non stop.
I felt so bad, I went to him and gave him a hug.
'Nobody has done this for me before' he sobbed.
'You mean nobody has ever made you go all the way back home to retrive Barley Milk tea right?' I teased, 'So... have you got the Barley Milk Tea?'
He laughed. 'Here! ' and he raised the plastic bag in his hand for me to see.
I made him try the shirt I bought for him, nice?:
He told me later that he was actually a bit unhappy that I made him went back to get the Barley Milk Tea at first. He thought I find him too noisy and needed some time to myself. He explained that he took so long because he took a bath before he went back to the resort. Hrrrrmmmpphh >:(
We went to our favourite 'Muu Gathat' shop to have our Christmas dinner.
This is my boy, with the blur look:
He looks like he is the Muu Gathat god that rose from the steamboat, HAHAHA:
We got our favourite balcony seats because those seats don't leave our clothes and hair smelling of barbequed pork after the session.
Breakfast time!
We had porridge and toast for breakfast the next day.
Jayor stirring his coffee:
Happy Happy!
We went back to Ban Jalae! We never fail to get the kids some candies on our way back.
The kids are smart ok, the minute they saw us they knew candies were coming their way, and they got ready to queue up for their candies!
After that, we experienced the speed of 'Ban Jalae information delivery'. It only took 2 kids to yell out something like (because I couldn't understand Lahu language) 'they giving out candies!!'. And the rest of the kids in the village came running out:
Luckily Jayor was there to help me. Together, we distributed the candies to the kids. P'Phakdii, I gave the 2 packets of candies which you bought for me to the kids together with the candies we bought na, I hope you don't mind, because I think they will bring more happiness if I give them to the kids than if I keep them for myself.
The satisfied kids sitting around at Jayor's house.
Jayor brought me to the new shop that his mum bought. That shop was pretty near to P'Jati's wife's shop.*gasp*
We saw this cute doggy outside the shop.
Wrestling!
Ok now the real couple shot.
Outside his mum's shop.
We brought groceries for dinner that day too. He said the whole family always have dinner together at his mum's house when I go back for visit. Usually his sisters and brother will have dinner at their own house. His niece and nephews came back to stay with his mum too because it was school holidays.
Him and Namiteh, his elder sister, preparing dinner:
This is Tuu, Jayor's nephew. Tuu is a great Kid. Jayor said everyone loves this boy because he is very obedient. I gave Tuu a book of Dragon Ball stickers. And guess what? He took the book out to the veranda and shared the stickers with the other kids.
I almost melted when I saw the backview of Tuu flipping through the pages of stickers, the kids pointing out the stickers they want to Tuu and Tuu peeling the stickers out for them.
I remembered during my previous visit to Ban Jalae I bought 3 books of stickers for Jayor's nieces and nephew(Tuu was staying at boarding school in the city so I didn't see him during my previous visit).
Some other kids saw the sticker books and asked for the stickers, and Jayor tore the pages out from the books so that each kid could get a page. He kept 3 pages for his nieces and nephew. When I asked 'will your nieces and nephew be sad if they know that they are only left with a page of stickers each?'
'They must learn how to share. When there are not enough stickers to go around, they have to learn how to be grateful that they were given a page of stickers'. That was a lesson that was stucked in my head until now.
This is Tuu:
Tuu looking through the stickers inside the book:
Tuu's uncle.. haha he was helping me organise the sets of cute plastic utensils that my mum got for the kids:
Tuu again:
I thought this picture is very very cute, from left, Jayor's mum, Namiteh, and Jayor. They were preparing dinner, his mum was making my favourite Lahu chili paste:
My Lahu boy at work, he impressed me with his culinary skills once again:
Meanwhile, the kids were having fun outside his house:
Dinner time! His sister-in-law, nieces and nephews joined us for dinner too, Tuu was already using the utensils my mum gave:
The next day, we went to get some souvenirs for my mum here:
This place sells the freshest vegetables around, Jayor knows that my family loves Cha-Om, the leaves of the smelly beans so he got them here:
This filial potential son-in-law choosing good Cha-Om for his future mother in law:
The Cha-Om here is really very very cheap, even though it was not Cha-Om season in December and the price of Cha-Om like doubled. In singapore one small bunch of Cha-Om cost 1 SGD. I could get 1 big bouquet of Cha-Om for only 80 Baht there.
So many oranges in December!
Jayor bought some mangoes for me to bring back home too:
He wanted to get fresh lemon grass with galangal for my mum too but I told him I am afraid there may not be enough space for that in my luggage:
Look at the mountains of chilli paste:
Asparagus... so beautiful!
The veggies here are too cheap! Being a veggie lover, I went gaga upon seeing so many veggies:
We went to the Chiang Rai Flower Festival a day before I went back to Singapore. I was lucky that I managed to catch the first day of the Flower Festival on the 27th, here are the photos:
Heart- shaped:
These floats are decorated with flowers for competiton. Chiang Rai Rajabhat University clinched the 1st Prize!
The float by CRU:
Caught on Camera: Jayor ogling at a lady.. hahahThat night, we celebrated our 1st anniversary with a simple cupcake we got from Nam Pheung Bakery.
Happy 1st Birthday!
My no. 1 favourite photo for this trip:
One more, with him looking at the camera:
This is a candid shot. He's got the 'huh?' look again:
The following photo is M-18. Children below 18 are advised to scroll down fast fast!!!!
The day of my return to Singapore. He followed my songthaew with the big luggages:
There he is.. As I watched the town slowly disappeared out of sight and the road to the airport coming into view, I broke down into tears on the song thaew. I could not believe I am leaving this place I called home behind once again.
The previous evening, Jayor's sister called him and told him that his mother would like to come out to the city to see me before I go back to Singapore. We were stunned of course, because his mother doesn't go to the city often.
When his mum saw me that evening, she immediately came up to me and gave me a big hug and kissed me on the cheek. She brought about 3 kg of rice out from the village to let me bring home to my mother.
She said she was worried about me and missed me so she came out to see me before I fly back to Singapore the next day. Namiteh told us to meet her at the Night Bazaar and I didn't know it was becaused they wanted to buy something for my mother.
I told them that they didn't have to buy anything but they insisted. I felt so bad because 1stly, things at the Night Bazaar are not cheap at all because the price was set for tourists. 2ndly, the money they were using were their hard earned money. I felt so so bad.
Before we parted that evening, his mother told me to give Jayor about 2 months' time to find a good and stable job so that he will have a steady income for our future. I didn't know why she said that at that point of time. But Jayor told me after that that his mum was worried that I will not get to lead a luxurious life if I were to marry Jayor. Hence she had been nagging at him to get a job with stable income.
That's very sweet of his mum. Really. How many mother in laws actually think for their daughter-in-law this way (add the word 'potential' in my case, just in case you all think I am thick skinned ahhaha). His mother was even worried that I am over-working myself here to save up for my trips to Chiang Rai.
I really miss Jayor and his family in Chiang Rai.
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